I’m 21 , currently engaged and 9 weeks pregnant but my fiancé wants me to have an abortion . From the beginning I completely said no and no I found out right before getting on a plane to LA and he had just left to Hawai’i . Being apart for a week brought up so much turmoil because we found out apart from each other and at first he was happy and excited then a few days later he was saying he can’t do this , we don’t have the finances , we’ll struggle , I’m not ready to be a dad . All these things which I understood but we’re engaged to be married so why would my fiancé be asking me to kill our baby . I was so hurt and still am but somehow put it in the back of my mind like it wasn’t happening. Until the day of Jun 21 2022 . I couldn’t sleep at all the night before I kept praying for anything to happen so I didn’t go through with it and something did happen where the appointment had to be inevitably rescheduled. I cried so much at that clinic because I felt like I wasn’t suppose to be there . I don’t know what to do . If I don’t do the abortion I know that’s the end of my relationship and he’s all I have now . I can’t go back to my parents or any family . I feel so stuck . My life was great in LA when I was on my own and now I feel like I’ve given up my entire life for this man . My next appointment is on Jun 28th . I can’t do this . Im beyond confused .
Please look up Crisis Pregnancy Centers in your area. They are loving, compassionate and will help you with EVERYTHING that you need, and refer you where they can’t. Trust God to provide for you and your baby who can feel pain as early as 9 weeks, per neo-natal specialists. Many women have actually died and been sterilized from abortions because it is a blind procedure. If your fiance really loves you, he should support your decision to give birth to his son or daughter! If not, then he is truly not the right one for you. May our Lord bless you and your baby.
I was in a very similar situation as yours. I’ve felt the confusion and heartache on feeling stuck. What stopped me was knowing this was my child and I needed to protect my child. There are temporary struggles and natural difficulties of having a baby. But, looking at my 3 year old daughter as I write this, I am incredibly hurt at myself for thinking I was about to give up the best thing that’s has ever happened to me. I don’t want you to miss out on the beautiful opportunity you have in front of you and how you will grow to become stronger, bolder, and more resilient. I know it’s hard now.
There are others who will support you and help you. I was able to sign up for Wa state insurance and be accepted 100% because I was pregnant. Look into that because all my bills from pregnancy appointments, from delivery, and pediatric appointments were covered completely. That alone is a huge burden to have lifted. You can do this and are not alone.
I wish I could hug you and offer you more.
I am praying for you now for God to give you strength…i know from personal experience that God will reward you for keeping your baby.
I’m praying for you right now. You are so loved and cared for by the One who made you, but also by people you don’t even know. The comments on here are wonderful. I hope you’ll take their advice.
Most Independent Baptist churches are also wonderful places that will support you and your baby and will get you all the help you need.
I also pray you’ll read all these posts of women and even men who have gone through with abortion. It will help you with your decision.
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. I’m all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths.
I have had a miscarriage and I still mourn that child. It’s been two years and I think of that child despite having my baby now. Being a parent is the best thing I’ve ever done. Praying for you.
Please don’t have an abortion. Or at least wait till after you contact Pro-Love Ministries 833-477-6588 They will help you through this. You will never know how strong you are if you don’t give yourself a chance!
There are so many people praying for you and your baby. You both are loved. You are ALREADY a mother which is why your instinct is to protect your baby. There are so many people wanting to help you keep your baby and raise it, or if you choose to let a loving family adopt it. Pray and God will show you the resources!! Don’t ever give up!!
I will offer all my prayers for you today. I am a mother of 4 . But my journey to Motherhood was very painful. I lost 4 babies in miscarriages before I ever had my first. Please keep your baby. God always provides for those in need. Babies are always a Blessing.
Love and Prayers for you always
I hope I’m not too late, but my husband and I talked and if you go through with the pregnancy, we will adopt your baby if you feel you cannot be the baby’s mother. We have three children, ages 3, 7, and 12, I homeschool, my husband is the pastor of our little church here in Texas. We will love your child as if they were born to us.
My greatest hope is that you will choose your baby and know that the rest of life will work out ok after this trial, but I want to offer you this way out if you feel you cannot do that.
We are Jonathan and Tricia Stewart in College Station, TX. (JonandTricia Stewart on Facebook)
I can help you throughout your pregnancy, I’ll be there when you have the baby. Whatever it takes.
I hope you are OK. I am praying for you. Whatever your decision was, I am praying you will run to the Lord, he knows what you need. He can make your paths straight. No matter what you are going through, He will not leave you or forsake you. Trust in His greater plan for you.