I’m 37 and I just found out that I’m pregnant with my my first baby. I had no idea and I’m already at 14 weeks. I’m not with the father although I have known him since we were 14. I’m so lost bc he’s not someone that I would want to have a baby with. It’s not that he’s a terrible person it’s just that he already has 3 girls of his own by 2 other women. I never would imagine to be a “baby mama”. I’ve always wanted to be a mother but not in this way. I’m scared that bc of my age this is my only chance at being a mom. I know that I’ll have to do everything on my own and I don’t know if im ready for that. I’ve already been crying everyday just thinking about it but I still don’t know what to do. I’m so sad bc I feel like if I have an abortion I’ll never get the chance to be a mom again. I just feel so alone and I haven’t told anyone that im pregnant. No one knows what l’m going though right now and how I feel.
I feel so lost
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I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I’m 34 and recently found out I’m pregnant with someone who I’m not together with either. I’m also very torn and feel very isolated. Playing scenarios in my mind over and over. I also worry about this being my only chance as I was told I couldn’t have kids naturally for many years. I feel your pain and you’re not alone in it. I hope you make the best decision for you…even though you don’t know what the answer is yet.
Dear precious child of God’
Please take the thoughts of abortion out of your mind, these thoughts are not yours but from the evil one. Your baby is soul and body. Abortion is a grave sin-are you ready to be a murderer? You will not be able to live with youself if you murder the angel that was predestined by God to have you as mother. Stay strong and believe that God has a putpose for your baby and his/her purpose needs to be fulfilled. Pray God to guide you as you connect with your growimg baby. Please share your thoughts with a good pro lifs priest who will direct you to give birth to your baby. Pray about it and good things will come.
God Bless You.
Dear precious child of God’
Please take the thoughts of abortion out of your mind, these thoughts are not yours but from the evil one. Your baby is soul and body. Abortion is a grave sin-are you ready to be a murderer? You will not be able to live with youself if you murder the angel that was predestined by God to have you as mother. Stay strong and believe that God has a putpose for your baby and his/her purpose needs to be fulfilled. Pray God to guide you as you connect with your growimg baby. Please share your thoughts with a good pro lifs priest who will direct you to give birth to your baby. Pray about it and good things will come.
God Bless You.
Dear Friend,
I know you’re hurting and lost. I know you feel like being a single mom would ruin you, but I just have to urge you to consider the truth. Abortion doesn’t end a problem, it ends a life and causes a whole host of much bigger problems. I also want to encourage you… if you keep your baby, you will have received the greatest physical gift possible to receive in this life. Each little child is so special, so much a part of you and yet so much their own self. Things will absolutely be hard, but hard isn’t always worse. Hard can still be amazing.
I pray I’m not too late. I pray you’ll read my comment. I pray you will keep your baby. But if you feel you have no way out and no other option, I will offer the same offer to you I’ve offered to a few other women (I have not heard from any of them). My family would be happy to welcome your baby into our home and raise him or her as our own. I am a stay at home mom, wife of a pastor of a little church in Texas, and we have three wonderful children. I would even be there for you when you give birth and guide you through it all. You and your baby are so valuable and important!!
Even if you just need someone to talk to about this and how you can overcome your fears and the hardships, please message me. My name is Tricia and you can reach me through Facebook – JonandTricia Stewart.
I’m praying for you.
Tricia
You already are a mother to your child that is growing inside of you. If you have an abortion you will simply be a mother of a dead child that you helped murder.
I am saying this in love as a woman who murdered her first child in the womb. I want to be direct because if someone would have been direct with me I maybe would have chosen life and I hope you do the same.
Please check out a few of the following websites for help.
-https://www.choice42.com/
-https://www.liveaction.org/
In addition, please do not hesitate to reply back with your email. I will email you and help you get through this! This is an assignment I have from God so He is my inspiration. And if you need another option, I will be happy with all my heart to adopt your baby or let you and your baby have a room in my home so you may be in a safe place with support.❤
I’m 36, had an affair a short term affair for the first time been married 10 years, the guy got me pregnant I’m now 6 weeks along. What do I do? I have kids already. But if I wasn’t a mom yet, no matter the man and I wanted to be a mom- I’d keep it. Motherhood is amazing.
It’s been a few months since you posted this. I pray all is well. If you need anything I’m here to help in any way. Alexanderaccounting@yahoo.com