After reading through these stories I decided to share my current situation. Just found out a week ago I’m pregnant, 7 weeks exactly. I told the man I’m pregnant by the day I took my test it was positive, his reaction wasn’t good. I had to go to the doctor alone to confirm my pregnancy. I’ve had my ultra sound and seen my baby’s heart beating, alone. The father is pressuring an abortion on me because he has another child already that has health issue he’s dealing with and he says he “can’t have another kid at the moment.” I told him I don’t want to have an abortion. He pretty much has given me an ultimatum that if I don’t have an abortion he’s going to disappear outta my life block me and change his number so myself and anyone that knows me isn’t able to contact him. Claims I’m being selfish to keep a child when’s dealing with other things. I’ve been on and off with him for 6-7 years and he’s all I’ve know, so it’s hurtful and I’m torn with the decision. I know In the end I’ll regret an abortion, & theres the thought of losing him too if I don’t do it
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Have the baby and take him to court to get child support. Then grow up, go to college and get a skill like IT, Nursing, Business. You will get ahead and be happy. It will be a struggle for awhile, but you will succeed! I promise!
Dear Young Woman,
No guy is worth killing a child for. Don’t let him ruin your life in this way! You need to know, if you kill your baby, you will suffer the most severe depression all your life, you’ll despise your boyfriend and blame him for forcing you when all along you’ll know it was you who made the final decision, you’ll have to live with the guilt of murder…. Please do not do this great harm to yourself. I hate to be such a downer, but this is the reality: your boyfriend will most likely leave you whether or not you have the abortion – just read the other testimonies! It is a horrible thing…
Have that baby.
Love that this little one is so much a part of you and that you were blessed to be the most important person in his/her life. You’ll NEVER regret giving that baby life and YOU.
Please, please make the right choice.
I’ll be praying for you, friend!
If you need to talk about this or need a friend, feel free to message me anytime: JonandTricia Stewart on Facebook.
Tricia
Sweet girl…
You said, “if I don’t have an abortion he will disappear outta my life block me and change his number so myself and anyone that knows me isn’t able to contact him.” Don’t you realize a double blessing that is? God has blessed YOU with a precious baby and the baby’s father will just walk out and not try to stay in your lives and continue the abuse. Tell hom don’t let the door hit you in the *ss! Good ridence! God is calling you to have this baby without the father around and rely on Him and Him alone and He will provide. You will see! Just have the baby and dont worry what degree you should purse. God will provide. PERIOD.
Feel free to reply back with your email and I would love to be your friend! You have me! You are NOT alone. God bless you. I will pray for you but also please pray daily for your baby.
Feel free to email me lins.jh95@gmail.com 🙂
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